What is a friend? The dictionary defines a friend as A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts. This is life and there is nothing we can do about it would be most people’s response however remember a tree grows tall and strong over the years from a tiny little seed the same principle applies to change it must first start inside and then slowly we can spread it to those around.
A per son who you trust and are close to you conclude their own opinion without facts leaves a person feeling a sense of betrayal.
The worst thing is when someone you call a friend jumps to conclusions about a situation. In one way or other peoples opinions play a part in our lives. Why is it not plausible for a guy to enjoy the female’s company without being involved in a sexual nature? I have in the past jumped to conclusions but when I realized what I was doing and how I would feel is that was me being judged I stopped. Guys who have close female friends are immediately assumed of either previously being involved with the female, about to be in involved with the female or about to be involved with the female. Actions speak louder than words, a person doesn’t have to tell you what they are thinking you can tell by their facial expressions and normally is a screw face where mixed relationships are concerned.Īnother example is the notion that guys can’t be friends with girls. Could it be that the guy is with the girl he likes her and he is mature enough to see past the color. This is something that happens a lot in a day and age where it is claimed racism is slowly being eradicated. Then they look at the guy and start asking why is he going out with a white woman what’s wrong with us black woman and shit like that. They immediately assume the girl is either a sket, easy to manipulate or some other theory along those lines, they don’t know the girl or guy yet they know the reason when the guy is going out with her. A primary example is when black people see a black man and white woman together they tend to judge the female and the male.
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Why do people tend to jump to conclusions about things and situations? Most of the time people don’t know the full story about a situation yet they tend to be judgmental. With that the bad also came with men using words like love to get some sex, the word became synonymous with easy access therefore became abused which now brings us back to now the present. The man who exfoliates, get a wax and its not afraid to share his emotion was the theme of the 90's with adverts' constantly bombarding consumers. With emotion's something similar also happened, the metro sexual man image came on the scene. For example the internet and other technological advancements made things quicker and better but it also made it easier for crime's likes 419 to occur. As always with evolution the good always had the bad not far behind. Then the 80's came along and everything evolved.
Men did not cry or express emotion as it was perceived as a sign of weakness, so when a man said I love you to his woman she knew it took a lot and she appreciated it. See those days there was nothing like metrosuxual men, e ven though the traditional roles for men and women had started slowly changing with the evolution of woman's rights etc something's were still the same and emotion was one of them. Love used to be a word which had so much power, back in the old days up till the 80's, when those words were expressed it conjured an emotion inside a woman, which was indescribable. Everything we do has an impact on someone else.
The credit crunch has highlighted the fact that we need to go back to basics and think about our actions. Banks and large business paid out multimillion dollar bonus payments to board members, spent lavish amount on trips, parties and entertainment, now a lot of those same business’s are either bust or nationalised. They did not veto customer credit reports or follow protocol and now everyone is paying for it. The banks who learnt the money to people who could not afford it treated people as things, all they where concerned with was making as much money as possible. Bad mortgages in the subprime housing market in America has affected the whole world, leading to closure of establishments which stood for over a 100 years, people losing their livelihood and the once invisible banks being brought to their knees. One great thinker said : ‘Most human problems stem from the fact that we treat people as things and things as people.’ History is littered with various examples of this but the most recent incident is the credit crunch.
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